winner

how do you describe your relationship with your boyfriend or girlfriend??
sweet, romantic, passionate, or maybe boring?? hhmm..after spending few minutes thinking about how would i describe mine, i really can't find one exact word. berlebihan?? mungkin. tapi gue rasa pasangan lain juga akan kesulitan kalau disuruh merangkum perasaan mereka selama jadian lima tahun dua bulan.

we are not a romantic couple for sure, but somehow, we find something romantic in our everyday routine. Aryo jarang banget mau anter jemput gue kesana kesini (well akhir-akhir ini dia lagi jadi ksatriaberjubahputih sih jadi lumayan sering nganterin gue). bahkan kadang-kadang kalau kita mau pergi dia males jemput padahal rumah kita jaraknya satu batang rokok aja ga abis.

we are two independent people who happen to be fall in love with each other. he prefer to stayed at home while i wanted to go outside. France is my so-wanna-be-there country and Japan is his. gue suka mencoba hal-hal baru (dan cepet bosen) sedangkan Aryo fokus sama satu hal yang jadi keahliannya. love and food are two things that stick us together. seriously! we LOVE to EAT.

kita berdua sama-sama menganut paham "don't get too involve with the other's family before we ready to get married". i know its weird. tapi kita ga mau jadi terlalu deket sama keluarga satu sama laen karena kalau putus repot urusannya. gue kenal keluarganya Aryo dan gitu juga sebaliknya, tapi cuma sebatas itu. things will become more complicated when familly involves.

we trust each other but we don't rely on each other. i rarely rely on Aryo (bad sentence, i know). i just dont want my life to be over when he's not around.

dengan semua 'keanehan' itu kita masih awet-awet aja sekarang. lebih awet dari temen-temen kita yang tiap saat cowonya ngater jemput, lebih awet dari pasangan yang punya hobi sama, bahkan lebih awet dari orang-orang yang udah deket banget sama keluarga pasangannya.

apparently this kind of relationship work for us, at least till now, so don't bother wasting your time telling us what to do!!

happy anniversary bumble bee
i didn't wrote this post for you honey, but for some people who keep thinking they're better than us despite the fact that we are the real winner!